If faith is a relationship, then faith is about trust. That in which you put your trust is the God in which you have faith, so says Martin Luther. This applies to lower case 'gods' as well. Some of the stuff we trust is nothing more than the ephemeral trappings of life, status and money. So where does this trust come from?
If we talk in human terms, we learn about trust from our first relationships, generally with our parents. We cry; we are comforted. We are hungry; we are fed. They are bigger than we are; we look to them for safety and protection.
That is the most basic of trusting relationships and it is forged right out of the womb. But it grows. Don't worry, this won't hurt.....and it doesn't. Come on, jump! I'll catch you....and they do. I wouldn't tell you something if it wasn't true....and well, most of the time that one works out as well.
As we grow, and our relationship with parents and friends and strangers grows, we learn about the depth and limits of trust. Humans are not all powerful; they are not perfect. Not all humans are to be trusted. Into every life comes some disappointment, hurt, loss, anger.
Our relationship with God begins in a different way. God is reflected to us - we watch our parents' interaction with this unknown 'God'. We listen to the stories about how God has acted throughout history (Bible) and how God is active in the lives of folks around us (testimony or witness, generally over coffee). We participate in faith rituals (worship, sacraments, service projects, funerals) where the rituals help shape us and our understandings.
We begin to ask questions. The questions grow as we do. Is God bigger than the tallest tree? How does God know when I am praying? Where is God when I am hurt - physically or emotionally? Lord, why do you feel so far away?
We begin to listen for answers. Not just the answers that others around us offer, but we begin to listen for God's voice in our life - leading, correcting, assuring...even weeping with us. We begin to understand that the answers are not always easy.
The witness of others is critical to our growing relationship with God, a relationship that has all the usual ups and downs. Without the witness of the saints, we wander and wonder looking for a framework for our decisions and our lives. Some find that framework in the NFL, some in fashion, some in industry, etc. For Christians, Christ crucified is the frame by which we lead our lives.
Luther teaches that it is the Holy Spirit who calls us to faith.....through the witness of faithful saints all around us. We become the reflection of God to others, their guide to this God we have found....or should I say, who has found us.
I'd love to hear the story of how God found you. Stop by for a chat....and some coffee.
For Luther references, check out the Small Catechism, Apostle's Creed, article 3 and the Large Catechism, Ten Commandments, Commandment #1.
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